Difficult People (Part 3)
In the series, “Difficult People”, we are exploring the challenge of relationships through the story of Jacob and Esau.
Icebreaker: Who is the most “difficult person” you’ve encountered this week? Share a story—but keep it lighthearted!
Exploring the Text (Read Genesis 27:1-41)
1.Which character in the story do you relate to most—Isaac, Rebekah, Jacob, or Esau? Why?
2. Why do you think God allowed the family dysfunction in this story to unfold as it did? What might this teach us about His sovereignty and our brokenness?
3. How does this story challenge your view of what a “godly family” should look like?
Personal Reflection
4. Think about a “difficult person” in your close relationships. How does the proximity and commitment of the relationship change the way you deal with the challenges they bring?
5. How do you tend to handle conflict in relationships? Do you lean toward avoiding it, manipulating it, or addressing it head-on? What effect does this tendency have on the situation or relationship?
Application
6. “There are no shortcuts.” What shortcuts are you tempted to take in dealing with long-term difficult relationships? How might those shortcuts backfire?
7. Gratitude was emphasized as a way to guard against bitterness. Who in your life do you need to express gratitude toward, despite how difficult they may be?
8. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. Which aspect of love is hardest for you to practice in your difficult relationships? Why?
Closing Discussion
9. Reflect on the concept of Dayenu (“it would have been enough”) from Nick’s sermon. How can focusing on God’s sufficiency change your perspective in the midst of relational struggles?
10. What’s one practical step you can take this week to better love and serve a difficult person in your life?
(*Video available after Sunday services)
